Saturday, March 8, 2008

You Are Who You Date

I read an interesting article yesterday about a premise I had heard before: That who you date is a reflection of who you are. Not in the superficial sense, such as you date a rich man so you must be a gold digger. No, deeper. Like you are dating who you are. Sounds complicated maybe, but I think it has merit. Like I keep dating commitmentphobes, when in fact I have been unsure of settling down myself. If you are a nester, that is who you are looking for and who will come into your sphere. The woman who is not yet separated, and she attracts people who are also not available. And on and on. Another argument for the laws of attraction.

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