I was studying in Panera Bread the other day--decked out with laptop, notes, etc. and a man was looking for a place to sit. He looked around and then chose the table next to me. As time went on, he made small talk with me and seemed approachable. He might have been married--I am not sure. I couldn't see his ring finger. But he was cute, and he looked interesting. And he looked interested in me, which was nice. I haven't gotten a lot of male attention lately, and I feel sometimes as if I am invisible to men. It was nice that he clarified that that isn't so.